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[quote=Anonymous]This is a pretty intriguing question! Because he is a bit stuck in that shared ownership sitaution.

Some things to consider:

1. what is his plan for housing, with or without you? Does he want to be in that house forever? When he wants to move out, what is his plan -- to be bought out? to rent out his rooms? for everyone to sell the house and split the proceeds? (btw, I saw this happen across the street from me -- a married couple and a signle woman bought a house together from the landlord at a great deal. HOWEVER, when one party wanted to move, their friendship totally fell apart. The other woman did not want to move, but the couple couldn't afford to buy them out, so they all sold it. The woman was really pissed and never forgave them. All three said they would NEVER do a shared ownership sitaution again.)

2. I wouldn't move in with this guy until you get engaged. Something about being engaged just leads to MUCH more realistic planning. The future isn't hypothetical anymore.

3. Your home life sounds really lovely!

4. All that being said, one of my happiest living situations was with my boyfriend, my best friend and her husband in a huge house in Takoma Park. It was just wonderful. But it had to end at some point (when they had a kid), and luckily it was a rental, so we could very easily separate.[/quote]

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