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[quote=Anonymous]My advice would be to focus first on yourself.  Figure out who you are and what you want out of life.  Be realistic about what marriage entails.  Be open to experiences and people that may not immediately check off every box.  Let go of the fairy tales.  Don't be so hyper-focused on finding the right man.  Work on yourself first.  That way, you'll increase the chances of making the right decision when you meet the guy who could be the right one when the time comes.

More often than not (obvious red flags aside), we find ourselves having to decide whether to marry someone based upon foresight.  You THINK he's this or that based on what you've seen so far, but there's no way to truly know how he will be 5, 10, or 20 years down the road.  You just hope the person you picked changes in a way that's compatible with how you will change as you go through life together.  There is truly no way to ensure you've married wisely until you reach a point in life where you can look back and make a determination based upon what was right for YOU.      [/quote]

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