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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband (who in many ways is an exceptional spouse and parent) had an idyllic childhood. I did not. In some ways I think he has a sort of bizarre naïveté about people’s motives etc. I don’t have that problem. While I agree that family dysfunction can reappear in successive generations, sometimes some contact with imperfection can bring wisdom.[/quote] This should make sense, but not in all cases. I know someone who was treated in a very hard, passive aggressive manner, with emotional abuse - and they are still very naive - almost as if they think that no one is as bad as their family. It could also be plain lack of common sense. I would say make sure that common sense and communication is valued in your spouses family - if they hate each other, are cold, are difficult to get along with, have bad dispositions, and use each other, that is no good for anyone. [/quote]
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