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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I had my own[/b] wth a known donor and we decided how it would work up front. Our kid is now a teenager, and it’s generally worked well. This is my child, and the donor serves the role of an affectionate uncle. Kid has never known anything different and can get questions answered about the other part of his background. If your friend does a bait and switch it could be a disaster. [/quote]

I had my own too via adoption as a single mom by choice.  I get to raise my  gorgeous daughter from China as i always dreamed of raising  a daughter.  No other adult  interfering with my parenting. And,  my kid gets my last name.

My parents tell me (and everyone, ugh!) that the best day of their life was the day I stepped off that airplane with their first grandchild. They are in their 70s and after seeing horrible divorces and custody fights among all their various friends and those friends'  kids and grandkids, they tell  me how smart i was to do it solo.

I have great ex-boyfriends who have stuck by me as friends. They have been so supportive and helpful.  I would never have used them in an entrapment situation.

So, OP: do it right, if you really just want a kid,  like a lot of us do.   Do it solo, being by adoption, foster , or birth.

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