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[quote=Anonymous]You might try talking to them separately at a calm time, maybe at bedtime, and get each one’s take on what is happening. You might find that one is really the instigator, or one plays the victim too much. Then, I would have a family meeting and discuss it and say there is a problem and a solution needs to be found. You can read online about family meetings and how to conduct them. Making time to listen to each one at bedtime might alert you to other stressors that fuel the behavior. For video games, I’d give one the morning and the other the afternoon and switch off each day. Then there’s no expectation that they might get a turn that they have to fight for. Or, one day on and one day off.[/quote]
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