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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm on team DW, but that's irrelevant. It doesn't sound like your DW is not a good health care advocate -- it sounds like she is advocating strenuously on your behalf. Anyway, it's your body and you get to trust the doctor if that's what you choose. I wouldn't shut your wife out since she clearly  is fighting for you and is on your side, even though it seems like she is on the opposite side. Try to get her to see that ultimately, it's your choice and she needs to know when to stop pushing for something you don't support yourself.[/quote]

Disagree, she is imposing her anti-science mumbo jumbo, and demanding nature on this man's inherently stressful experiences.

Sounds like a nightmare to me. I am sorry that she is not what you need through these times OP.

Do you have a sibling or close friend who might do a better job in that role?

I would put yourself first right now. If your wife is upset, schedule an appointment with a couples therapist or social worker who will mediate the discussion. Your wife has to be more responsive to YOUR needs or she gets cut out of this whole side of things (which would be sad for you both). [/quote]

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