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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you NICELY inform some of the other moms that Larla would like for Laslo to be more a part of the group and perhaps when they have events they can remember to include Larla and Laslo?  Don't be a b about it or roll your eyes or ask like it's a burden.  Ask nicely and try to help this woman enter into your social circle.  This really isn't that hard.[/quote]

+1 seriously. I totally hear you op on how this situation happened and it wasn’t your fault, but she IS being left out and she’s asking you to help and I just think you need to  do the right thing and try to help. Isn’t that what you would want to help your kid learn if he was in this situation? To think through how he could help this person feel more welcome? Yes we can still have boundaries and it doesn’t have to be everything but if you know someone is feeling left out, help others in the group realize that so you can all be better models for your kids on how to be inclusive. It would have been no skin off anyone’s back to have her drive her car in that parade, so for example you could have texted the mom of that kid and said hey do you mind if I mention this to x? I think she would love to join. I know x and x aren’t that close, but x (kid) gets left out sometimes and I think it would mean a lot if we made an effort. And then just keep making those efforts and connections for her.[/quote]

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