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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow this thread went off the rails. Spent about $125k but a little while ago. Around $40k for all that goes into ivf and testing, $25k to agency/lawyer, $30k to gestational surrogate, about $5-10k for legal rights end of process stuff, $5k to psychologist/social worker and some other things I don’t remember. The kids (twins) are biologically mine and my husbands. We are regularly in touch with our gestational surrogate who feels like she helped us with a miracle and we feel the same. Kids have known about as part of their birth story and get mom had a health problem where she couldn’t carry them and so a wonderful person carried them for us. I know many will always judge and think it’s awful - but for us it gave us the opportunity to be able to have kids and our kids are pretty darn normal. [/quote] Was it more money because it was twins? Genuinely curious.[/quote] Yes there was a “twin fee” in the contact for $5k. We also then paid additional support For things like house cleaner etc to be more supportive for more challenging pregnancy for carrying twins. There seems to be a lot of BS in some of the postings above or not understanding that a gestational carrier isn’t biologically connected to the child. [/quote]
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