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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people hide those characteristics fairly well for a year or more.  Once people are in deep the facade starts to crack and the true personality slowly emerges.

Everyone is on their best behavior early in relationships.[/quote]

Yes, this. They are still having sex (which will disappear), they are still on a chemical high of a new relationship, and then they get married because they've found the ONE! But then after they get married the toxic person slowly lets down her guard. She feels secure that she is truly loved and cherished and she starts in on the trying to change her partner, letting herself be petty and controlling, and being her true self [i]with her husband[/i]. She does her best to still appear perfect in public. She publicly acknowledges that her husband is the best, amazing, and that she couldn't do it without him (this is on FB or whatever social platform she is most into), but she's already cut off his outlet to the same platform (because she doesn't want him interacting with other women) and is limiting sex, and they are fighting a lot. She accuses him of cheating (which he will, eventually, because he's been denied sex and beaten down by his wife). She's emotionally abusing him. [/quote]

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