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[quote=Anonymous]There are multiple siblings and as of June 1 NONE of them had set out a schedule of use?  This was inevitable.  Your DH needs to send a message now saying, "Great you guys got a jump on vacationing.  Are you planning on staying just these two weeks?  If so, let's set up a schedule now so Sibling 2, Sibling 3, and I know when to go.  I think the quarantine kept us too occupied to work that out before we started vacationing.  Sibling 2 and 3 - do either of you have strong feelings about what weeks you'd like to be there?  We can all try to be flexible, but if someone has specific needs, let's accommodate."

I think they need to spell out calendars long in advance.  A friend with a shared sibling home has each of them mark an equal number of weeks on a shared calendar.  She and her sister agree that some of their time will overlap because their kids are playmates.  (Say Anna takes weeks 1, 2 and Beth takes 3, 4 but both actually stay there together on weeks 2 and 3.  So technically they get an extra week there but it's agreed in advance that it's shared and they don't get any more than their other siblings who also take 2 weeks.  One week is always a free for all reunion and any of them can go. It seems to work well and they all get to use it as they want.[/quote]

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