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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to focus on the answer to a very important question, which is:  Would you be comfortable if your husband starts going on dates with other women?

I have seen a number of marriages where one spouse brings up the idea of DADT or an open marriage, the other spouse is initially opposed but finally comes around, and then the spouse that did not want the open marriage in first place enjoys it way more than the other spouse thought they would. In most cases, it was the DH that brings up the open marriage idea but ends up regretting it because the DW gets much more attention (i.e., casual fun sex).

However, I have seen where a DW brought up having an open marriage and her DH hated it at first.  At first, the DW was having a great time with NSA dating and he was sitting at home with the kids.  However, when he finally found an FWB he started to get into it.  This DH ended up determining that he (in his mid-40s) could do much better as a divorced dad in the dating world than his DW could in that same world.

After they were divorced, it was easy for him to date (and find NSA sex) while she was looking for a LTR (in her early 40s with primary custody of three kids) and having very little luck.[/quote]

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