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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well your relationship with your ex Mil has nothing to do with your wife. If you need to make amends it doesn't matter that your wife has done anything for you. Your wife doesn't own you she doesn't get to tell you how to treat other people. Its your business and if you need to make amends it's better for your health and good for your ex Mil.

There are literally no negatives to making amends and being kind to someone. [b]I bet you felt better after the talk with your MIL[/b][u]. [/quote]

I felt like the weight of the world was lifted off my shoulders.

I decided to go ahead and send my former B-I-L a message on FB - I have no idea if he'll read it - but I apologized, told him I missed the family, told him I feel like I let his father down (NB: on his deathbed, his father asked me to take care of his daughter...that's been a heavy weight to carry around), told him I appreciate the memories we have from family time, etc.

I come from a very small family and I lost a lot of people during the divorce - the family I never had of "my own" but always wanted.  I miss all of them.  Divorce in my case was a huge error and I am an idiot. [/quote]

And you'd be committing another huge error by not divorcing your current wife.

She's abusive and controlling. She separates you from your kids, your other relations. She's toxic. [/quote]

:roll:  :roll: 
What is stopping OP from doing what he needs to do and divorce her?  He is torturing his own kids. He is allowing her to abuse and control him.  OR it could be very well that he is a psycho who is weaving this huge story on DCUM and will one day kill his second wife or run away with her money.

I am betting that OP has an addiction issue of some sort and he is the one without a job and a house. He is not leaving his wife because he is the freeloader![/quote]

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