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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would set clearer boundaries sooner vs. later. I waited too long and it really took a toll on my marriage. [/quote] This. Life is going to get harder with 2 young kids. You are going to have to set boundaries just to survive. It sounds like your husband is either very insensitive or a huge jerk. Either way, the less wishy-washy you are the better. No “well, it would be better if you drove ... blah, blah” You’re going to be blamed no matter what. Say what you feel out loud: “I do not feel comfortable with that level of risk. I don’t want to put my health and the baby’s health at risk. A visit is out of the question for medical reasons.” [/quote]
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