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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks to all who responded. I feel like I can’t win. DH and his  MIL have made up their minds. [b]If I block this, I will reap the consequences in the form of a pissed off husband who will say I’m keeping MIL from DS and I will have a miserable MIL guilting DH constantly which will exacerbate his anger, which had been incredibly acute lately. [/b]

Literally my MIL FaceTimes us constantly and complains about how long it’s been since she has seen us and keeps reminding us when the last time she came was on every call. And she tells DS how much she misses him and wants to come visit and asks if he remembers when she came last because “it was so long ago” etc (yes, he remembers). She’s always been like this but the pandemic is making her unhinged. She also wants to fly in when the baby comes to “help” (which means she attempts to play with DS but I suspect will just try to get all the baby snuggles in before handing him over to me for diaper changes and feeds - that’s what happened the first time). But god help me if I point that out to DH. [/quote]

Are you okay OP? Do you have somewhere you can go? Dealing with your husband’s anger problems while pregnant seems like a bad situation...

Do you feel he will become violent if you say no?

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