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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, so I am pregnant with my 3rd.  My best friend has been trying for years (IVF, you name it..), with no success.  When I told her about my 2nd, she didn't speak to me for almost a year because she said she felt betrayed that I had not told her we were trying (which we didn't really do avidly...it just happened but we were happy about it).  Anyway, we have just got to the point where she can be cordial with me.  It caused me a ton of stress during my pregnancy, and I was sad to not have my best friend in my life, but I understood that her pain was super intense.  Well, now, just as we are making strides, we are pregnant again.  We have always wanted a big family, but I find myself feeling guilty about being pregnant b/c I know she will probably flip again.  I don't want to spend this pregnancy being stressed about this, and the thought of even telling her makes me ill but I know it will be worse if she finds out through the grapevine.  Any ideas?  My husband offered to do it by talking to her husband.  I know it makes me sound like a super wimp, but it was truly one of my darkest times when this happened last time.  How should we tell her?[/quote]

She is not your best friend, she is not your friend, hell she is a frienemy. Keep it movin. [/quote]

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