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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he needs convincing..then he does NOT want a 3rd kid.[/quote]

They haven’t had the conversation yet! He might not be adamantly against it.  He might have a particular concern, like worrying about less couple time, that can be addressed.  [/quote]

OP here. Thank you. Yes, I am just asking for advice. I think having a plan is good. I have already taken care of the newborns, my DH is better with the toddler stage, so we have a good plan. My DH is in his early 40s, and mainly his concern is age, but a lot of people have their first child at his age. [/quote]

What I see in this thread from the first few pages alone is that you are already dismissing his (very valid) concern and only addressing comments from poster who have successfully convinced their husband to have a third. It seems that your mind is made up and you are not willing to consider any points of view counter to yours. Good luck, but I truly feel this is going to drive a wedge between you and him if this is your attitude to start. [/quote]

This makes no sense. You think she shouldn’t talk to her husband because he MIGHT disagree? How do you stay married if you’re always walking on eggshells around your spouse?

Personally, I couldn’t live that way.

In healthy relationships, people should be able to tell each other what’s important to them. If you can’t do that, what’s the point of being married???
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