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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I love watching shows together.  We binge watch entire Netflix series.  We compromise over movie selections, etc.  We can always find something we both like.  We just watched the Michael Jordan documentary.

We don’t retreat separately.  We love being together.  We have our together time when our kids (12&14) go to sleep.

We have a lot in common.  Married 22 years.

OP- I just found out he just ended an affair and things were great at home.  So- I don’t know what to tell you.

I wasn’t lonely in my marriage.  We had good sex and good times and he just ended a 3-year affair.  Wtf?

He is in therapy 4 days per week now to try to understand.

I read all of these people who hate their marriages and don’t get along with their spouses and we do.  He always plans nice things for me.  We go out together to nice restaurants and with friends.  He said he never loved or even thought about being with his AP partner when we were together—and never envisioned something permanent.

Life is strange.  I’m dealing with everything was great...and he did something awful.[/quote]

I'm so sorry.[/quote]

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