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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry you feel that way. But I think it’s kind of normal because our feelings always play trick with us.

Ask yourself if dh is an equal partner in bring in the bacon, child care household shore, being supportive of your career, the choice you made, and things you want to do? If answer is yes, then, you over think it.
If the answer is  No, that’s a true loneliness and you should consider getting out of your marriage. 
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To me I believe happiness and satisfaction is with in me, no outside factors can generate it. So I don’t need togetherness as to watch tv together. Togetherness for me is put up united front to support each other goals, dream and things that i (technically ,  we both) want to achieve in life.

My husband and I slept in different room ( because I am a light sleeper ,have a hard time sleeping with him, he woke me up in the middle of the night by cuddling me which initially it’s nice but after a few years I realize I can’t get quality sleep. 
 We watched different movie or things we are interested in on our iPad. Some day we have nothing to talk about except about our son. My dh is not a talkative person at all outside of his work environment.he is very introvert person. Yes it did made me felt lonely when we start living together as well but I learn to appreciate quietness and the space between us after we had a son who needs us to be in all the time. It helps me relax.  I can have my own down time and recharge. [/quote]

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