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[quote=Anonymous]Keep your wife totally out of the discussion. Your wife sounds extremely bitter about the daycare situation. Again, I would not discuss any of this with your wife. Keep her out of the loop. It sounds like 12 noon check is done by your Dad so that is covered. It sounds like sister is willing to do 2 of the 4:00 pm checks. How old are sisters kids? Can you pay one of sisters kids who I'm assume are at least late teens now to do a couple of days of 4:00 pm checks? Can you do one or two of the checks yourself? Another option, is there a neighbor who could do a 4:00 pm check that you could pay? Dad could probably get by paying them less than the caregviers. Two years is a long time before Dad retires. If Mom declines these checks might no be enough. To keep Mom out of a nursing home it might at some point require Dad to retire early.[/quote]
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