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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think plenty of people marry the wrong people or marry for the wrong reasons and it catches up with them. And then they're 50. And they have a slew of short-term affairs to feel better about themselves or they actually meet someone they have a long-term affair with who they may even love. And if they want to really be with that person they have to get out of their marriage which is a nasty solution for most. [/quote]

People won’t want to believe this, but I think that you are right. [/quote]

I don't think the age criteria is right though.

The amount of people already on their second marriages in the US to me is astounding.

But I guess if you're married at 23 or 24...by 35 you'll have had a decade to realize the first one wasn't working.[/quote]

If you marry what we’d consider in major metropolitan areas very young, like 22, for example, chances are you are not going to be the same person with the same needs, same dreams, same tolerance for BS, in 20 years. That’s bound to cause inner turmoil. If you become someone your spouse is no longer into, them what? Find someone who like the new version of you.

I think after a variety of experiences there is bound to be change. For many in long term mediocre marriages inertia-and the fear of being poor-takes over. Affairs are one way to get through it, though what’s the saying, men have affairs to stay married? [/quote]

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