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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm curious what the backstory is here. You don't spend much time with your kids, and your current wife is jealous of your ex and kids.

And honestly, I don't even see why you'd want to meet him. If you can't be bothered to raise your own kids, why would you care about meeting their stepdad?[/quote]

Backstory is kids were unhappy at my house and moved in FT with mom. It was my fault, I let stepmom run the show.

Then ex got together with this new guy and eventually married him.  Kids and I have had a damaged relationship for a while that we are sure of mutually agreeing to repair.  [/quote]

Sounds like your new wife is still running the show.  Your biggest issue isn't meeting their new dad. Its reparining your relatiionship with your kids and asking yourself why you are letting your bitch of a new wife tear your family further apart.  Your kids see this. hopefully the new dad will be a good influence.[/quote]

Oh please his relationship with his kids is on him. It's not anything to do with his wife unless she treated them bad. Often the kids are simply angry about the divorce and take it out on the new partners. This is probably what has happened. Now if there was cheating involved - well that was a foreseeable reaction.

He and his wife have a home together and the kids need to be respectful of their rules. I suspect they didn't like that.  Same with his ex wife in her home. Siding with your kids against your spouse, or vice versa is really a bad idea. 
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