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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you already know everything you need to know. You do not need to discuss this any further. Do these things tomorrow: 1) Open your own bank account separate from his. 2) Start calling lawyers. Many will do free consults. You only need 1 or 2 to get a good idea of what to do next. Do you have an EAP at work? Many EAP programs will connect you with free legal advice. 3) Start looking for your own place. There is nothing to stay for, not one more day. Can you move in with family members for a while? You do NOT need to stay in a house with this man. No point engaging with him - he is dishonest and an abuser. A friend of mine said, "Stop feeling hurt because the hardware store doesn't stock oranges. Stop going to the hardware store to look for oranges." Your husband is the hardware store. The oranges are honesty and emotional connection. He's got no oranges. He never will have oranges. Stop looking for them there. Either live a life without oranges or look elsewhere.[/quote]
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