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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How does he treat you? Are you happy when you're together?

If so, that's a LOT. Look at the divorce rate for blended families, it is sky high. As much as it would be wonderful to have a happily ever after re-marriage, be realistic. You are asking him to move in with your kids--it's too much. Honestly it sounds like he is being very wise.

Hopefully he really loves you. It sounds like he does. Just enjoy that. Be there for each other, connect. And then let him go back to his place and have that space when he needs it. You have multiple kids younger than his--be glad he even wants to see you.

Stop looking for what you DON'T have and enjoy what you do. As long as he is there when you need him, let go of needing the relationship to look like something very specific.

Or not, and you can insist you want it your way--but have the self-respect and respect for him to end this and move on. He's made very clear what he wants and doesn't want. Now you have to decide whether you can be happy with what he wants. Stop trying to force things your way.[/quote]

Our kids are the same age except for one of them still in high school. So this is not so much about blending families but a little bit I guess. [/quote]

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