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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What a pig.

My husband is not like this, but that’s because his father was an equal contributor in the home, and they both worked.  Men behave in the way that was modeled for them.  I don’t blame women who marry someone like this because how the hell are you supposed to figure out the man was raised to be a lazy pig?[/quote]

My husband's dad had a live-in housekeeper and live-in nanny. I think he made coffee and that's about it. DH and I decided we did not want that sort of lifestyle - we wanted privacy in our home.  But when I met DH he was in law school, and I paid attention to how clean or messy his apartment was.  When I grabbed a drink from the refrigerator I noticed how organized it was and how much produce he had. When I used the bathroom I could tell it had been cleaned recently.  And when I went over after he'd broken a bone and had surgery, he apologized for the mess.  Which consisted of a pile of mail on the coffee table and a pile of dirty clothes on his desk chair.  So I knew this was a man who would clean his home.

Cleanliness and organization are important to me. I would not have married him if he didn't keep things tidy. [/quote]

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