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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not sure why you just don’t leave. Not forever, just walk out and do what you need to do. I would, however, divorce over this is we didn’t have money for a full time nanny. [/quote] Because the one time I did, when I came back the kids had both been crying almost the whole time and my husband was unhappy with me, and [b]I decided when this baby was born to prioritize (for now) having a low-conflict marriage over trying in vain to make him do what he should be doing[/b]. [/quote] I understand your current goal. This will get old, fast. While you have a babysitter, start putting yourself in a position to leave him. He won't get better. You deserve better.[/quote]
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