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Reply to "career conundrum: have you ever been fired or 'asked to leave' your job? wwyd?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your needing "greater clarity" means you don't have the education and/or experience to perform at the level for which you were hired. Get out of there asap.[/quote] Yes. OP here, and I agree with you. That's why this job and I are mismatched. The things I'm good at aren't working in this setting - and I don't even see much opportunity for me to use my strengths in this position (which wasn't at all clear during the interviews) - and while I know I could learn/sharpen the skills I'd need to succeed at this job I would need my boss to be a better mentor, which she is not interested in doing. Hence my feelings of inadequacy and frustration - a toxic combo for productivity, that's for sure! I know my future with this company is nonexistent, it's just a matter of when and how I leave this job, and which way out would leave me in a better position. This weekend I was thinking I would come in today and give my notice, but maybe it does make more sense to be asked to leave and then try to negotiate a decent timeframe for my departure. I'm trying to balance all of the icky things about this situation - minimizing the amount of time without a paycheck before I get another job, preventing a future employer from finding out that I'm ineligible for rehire at this company (if I get fired), keeping my sanity while sitting at this desk - to find the best possible outcome, which isn't easy.[/quote]
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