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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Y'all? I think we've made the point that chores aren't gendered, etc. Let's stop hitting that particular note. Anyone got a PLAN that is better than the one I proposed, which is to sit down, as a family, write down all the daily/weekly/monthly/special-occasion chores, and map out a general idea of who does what, when? If anyone else has a PLAN that OP can use to move forward in a positive way, lay it out.[/quote] Given this person is apparently an adult in 2020 and saw absolutely nothing wrong with enforcing harmful performative gender roles in his family, I'm not sure it's possible to hit that particular note too much. Gender roles are harmful. They are misogynistic. They lead to abuse and death of women. They're also harmful to men, but maybe it'd be a good exercise for this guy to sit down with himself and consider how performative gender role expectations have led to problems in his life and extrapolate from there.[/quote]
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