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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unpopular take, but I think most people secretly know (or are purposefully blind).[/quote]

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Not true in my case, but I was not looking for proof of it, either. Never looked at cell phone or credit card statements. It wasn't that I was "purposefully blind" - I just didn't think I had reason to check for signs of affair. In finding out about the affair, I found signs of past cheating, too. [/quote]

NP.  Also not true in my case.  Knew many of his friends and professional colleagues, all of whom told me independently what a great guy he was.  I also never looked at mobile phone, credit card, etc.  Why would I be with a person I didn't think I could trust. I would rather be single than have to review the credit card statements for proof of cheating every month.

I accidentally stumbled on hard proof of cheating, and once I started sleuthing, I found out tons.  Nonetheless, he still lied extensively in couples and individual therapy, putting out an elaborate and believable cover story.  It took me several months of watching, keylogging, looking at bills, etc. to blow up his cover story.

I never in a million years would have imagined what I found out.  Those friends who I told were also shocked he was the kind of guy that would do that.

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