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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a ton of shock right now.  The level of deception —especially during a time like this-has me reeling.

There are no divorces on either side of my family.  My parents had a very happy marriage and I had a great childhood.

That’s what I will mourn for my kids and it will change the rest of their lives.  My family does big family holidays and everyone is tight knit.

His family is full of dysfunction which I should have cared more about and seen red flags in my 20s.  His father was a real piece of work. We’ve been married 21 years.

I feel physically sick to my stomach.  And it’s a f@cking pandemic so it’s not like we can go anywhere.

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Umm.  Yes, yes he can go somewhere.  He should move to a new apartment immediately.  He can take one suitcase and a box of essential things.  Kids can visit him there.  There are plenty of Air BnBs that would be glad for a 3 month guest at reduced rates.

If he self-quarantines and you self-quarantine, and the two of you are the only people he comes into contact with, then there is no additional risk to the kids.  If he insists on contacting his partner, then that is on him if/when the kids or you get sick.  You can only control you and your behavior.  If he's contacting his AP phyiscally now in the middle of the pandemic and he is still doing it when he moves out, there is no additional risk.  [/quote]

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