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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a ton of shock right now.  The level of deception —especially during a time like this-has me reeling.

There are no divorces on either side of my family.  My parents had a very happy marriage and I had a great childhood.

That’s what I will mourn for my kids and it will change the rest of their lives.  My family does big family holidays and everyone is tight knit.

His family is full of dysfunction which I should have cared more about and seen red flags in my 20s.  His father was a real piece of work. We’ve been married 21 years.

I feel physically sick to my stomach.  And it’s a f@cking pandemic so it’s not like we can go anywhere.

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Yes, it is very shocking. How did you find out? How was he having an affair during the pandemic? Making up fake errands or work? Does he want to get divorced? [/quote]

Fake need to go into the office yesterday having to do with security computer patch.  Had been complaining it might be a possibility since Monday.

Are you ready for this?  I am looking at my photos (are phones sync) and there is obviously a photo that was accidentally taken of a floor half bed window and his pants underwear on floor and I see laptop in corner all with iPhone date stamp and location.

Things have been good.  He was seeing a therapist on his own.  He claims because of this and he ended it yesterday.  He was working with therapist about coming clean and on himself.  Therapy part is true but he had anger issues (not scary) and I now know why he was snapping at kids.  Still always trying to have sex, normal in every other way...

Truly the last thing I would expect.

And we’ve not had anyone in our home, wear gloves mask at grocery store, kids don’t have play dates...

And he does this?!?!!  Omg.   I really can’t make this up and it’s so far-fetched I can’t even confide in neighbors/friends because I have my kids to think about.

No way can I recover from this.  I am still in literal shock phase.  No prior signals.[/quote]

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