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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m loling at all the super defensive relies. Sure scheduled sex is probably better than no sex at all (maybe - if two people aren’t in the mood and are doing it just to check an item off a to do list, the sex isn’t likely to be that great). But it’s not as good as spontaneous desire, which is obviously the ideal. It’s just not.

It’s the fact that you HAVE to schedule in order to get any at all that is the bad sign imho.[/quote]

We absolutely schedule sex and no, I don't view it as a bad sign. We both have demanding jobs and two high energy, very young children who are close together in age (which was my husband's preference that I agreed to). Our younger one is teething, cranky, and in the middle of some kind of sleep regression. At this stage in life, my desire for sleep trumps all... food, sex, EVERYTHING. I am ever not tired - I fall into bed each night absolutely exhausted. Scheduled sex helps us maintain an intimate connection as a couple rather than just mommy and daddy. Someday soon kiddo will sleep again, date night will resume, things will feel normal, and natural desire will return. Yes, right now we have to work at maintaining it and I view that as a good thing, not a bad thing - a bad thing would be just neglecting it altogether in hopes that someday things would get better.   [/quote]

ugh that should say I am never not tired - sorry for the double negative  :lol: [/quote]

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