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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m loling at all the super defensive relies. Sure scheduled sex is probably better than no sex at all (maybe - if two people aren’t in the mood and are doing it just to check an item off a to do list, the sex isn’t likely to be that great). But it’s not as good as spontaneous desire, which is obviously the ideal. It’s just not.

It’s the fact that you HAVE to schedule in order to get any at all that is the bad sign imho.[/quote]

I agree that spontaneous desire is ideal, but I don't think it's a red flag for the marriage not to have that. Different parts of life have different challenges that don't necessarily stem from the relationship. For some of us, being run ragged by babies and work and nowhere near enough sleep makes spontaneous desire rarer. It would be unkind to my husband to say "not until my energy and libido and hormones are back to nornal and i am suddenly in the mood, probably when baby is sleeping through the night and not breastfeeding," rather than just planning on it. Yeah, it's not newlywed sex, but it's neither of our faults. [/quote]

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