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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I try to do more chores. [/quote]
This definitely does help.

IMO, there are about a handful of reasons why your wife doesn't want sex with you:

1. she resents you[/quote][/quote]She should get a divorce. Why would a woman stay married to a husband whom she resets? Find the door and leave the asshole.
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2. she's tired[/quote]She needs to learn to prioritize (stop doing so much tiring stuff) and/or outsource and/or ask for help. It does not take much to conserve 20 minutes of energy twice per week to prevent divorce.
[quote=Anonymous]3. you are no longer attractive (could be related to #1)[/quote]Maybe. But then she would say so, and the guys on this thread would not be here wondering, they would all be at the gym.
[quote=Anonymous]4. medical reasons (drop in hormones or other illnesses)[/quote] It is difficult to imagine just how incredibly handicapped a woman would need to be (24x7 life support) such that all forms of sex are impossible. Is this a realistic scenario worthy of mainstream discussion?
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These are good reasons. Here are some more:

1. Do you pay attention to her pleasure? Sex gets boring when you get nothing out of it.[/quote]Why would a woman marry a man who is selfishly bad in bed? This makes no sense. Again, she would be telling him what he's doing wrong, and he would surely do those things (because... sex).
[quote=Anonymous]2. To want sex, you have to feel sexy. To feel sexy, you need to feel confident and attractive. If you constantly belittle her or criticize her, she won't feel up for anything.
[/quote] Um, sure. But this sounds just like "she resents you" up above, and we know she would immediately divorce an asshole like that.[/quote]

Jesus, PP. Do you have any empathy at all? Unless your wife is on 24/7 life support, she owes you sex, no matter what? Even if you’re unpleasant and argumentative (like you are on these boards), even if sex is not pleasurable or even painful for her? Perhaps your wife via disinterested in sex because you see her as a vagina and not a whole human being. [/quote]

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