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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you bring your kids to BF’s house? If I was a teen, I’d hide in my room as well.[/quote] OP. No, I don't. Our kids dont mingle. They've met but they're for the most part kept apart because of this issue. [/quote] Do you also have 70% custody? If so, how do you find the free time to go over to BF’s house all the time?[/quote] I don't. I have my kids all the time but once a week and every other weekend during the school year and every other week in the summer. But like I said, his kids are in and out of his time regardless of custody time. So this is what is happening on 'non-custody' time so to speak. [/quote] Simple. Have BF come to your house. [/quote] OP here. That's what happens mostly. My BF thinks that's letting her 'win' and would like me there more--mostly because he doesn't like being away from is place for entire weekends twice a month.[/quote] Too bad so sad. He can get over it.[/quote] I dont understand. SO you're saying it is ok to move forward in a relationship totally ignoring the needs of one child, letting her get her way and then what??? She continues to be his child when she goes to college. Yes, it will be different but isnt this condoning her behavior?[/quote]
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