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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you have kids with him? [/quote]

God, why does everyone ask this?![/quote]

Because we are tired of reading these posts about people who complain about their spouses when they knew what they were getting into.  [/quote]

Yes, I’m sure OP is the first woman who was treated wonderfully while dating, got married and the household tasks were pretty even, and all was well. Then they had a baby and their husband suddenly decided that childcare was not his responsibility.

How was she supposed to have known? This happens enough to not be unexpected, but it’s hard to predict when your partner has never displayed this type of behavior before. The same people who blame OP for having children with this man would call her crazy for breaking up with him
“for no reason” if she said she was worried he would end up like other husbands.

Nobody knows how their partner will react to parenthood ahead of time.

At the point where you have a baby, the guy knows (subconsciously or not) that the barriers to leaving have just gone way up. His focus goes back to what he needs/wants, and ignores everything else. [/quote]

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