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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Example: kid 2 dropped off a note in my mailbox.  That resulted in a 30 minute fight about her daring to break federal law, invade our privacy by seeing our mail, and violating a request that she not come by the house.  So I duly sent a message thanking her for the note but reminding her to please not come by unannounced.

Then a few weeks later kids dropped off flowers and a note for my birthday and wife wigged out, against for "violating" our privacy, refusing to honor the request not to come by unannounced, etc.  Meanwhile I broke down in tears at the idea that they brought me flowers after everything that happened.  [/quote]

Your wife is insane! [/quote]

OP is insane!

I refuse to absolve him of blame. He just sits by while wife #2 attacks his children! WTF? You threw away their pictures????

OP, your wife sounds like a one person evil cult. Read some books about cults, make a plan and get the F out!

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OP's problem is that he refuses to accept any responsibility. "My wife said" and "my wife did" and "my child did" and nothing seems to be OP's fault at all. OP needs to own up to the decisions HE made and do what he knows is right - establish boundaries with his wife, whatever that means for his relationship, and begin to rebuilt the relationship with his kids, if they are willing. [/quote]

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