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Reply to "I'm afraid I've seriously damaged my children's lives - need perspective "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Request family therapy for just yourself and the kids. You can do this request via the courts if your XW will not agree. Do not request a change in visitation. You are not there yet.[/quote] Visitation (custody) is not possible or desirable for reasons, but I'm being talked out of stuff like meeting them in the park for a chat or going for a drive or having lunch. I cannot emphasize enough how involved I used to me in their lives. I feel like a monster the more I think about this. [/quote] You’re not ready for that either. I’m not even sure you are ready for family therapy since you are convinced this is all your new wife’s fault. You will never get your kids to trust you if you don’t own up to your share of responsibility for the estrangement, throwing out photos, etc.[/quote]
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