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[quote=Anonymous]This sounds like financial abuse to me. Right now you are supporting her adult children, which means you are financially supporting (and educating) two adults who are not even related to you. She is not working, the adult kids are likely not working, you are forced to shoulder the financial burden all alone as a disabled person, and she is not even allowing you see the bills? If this is accurate, it's okay to get divorced with a clear conscience. Being a Christian doesn't mean you must sacrifice your own financial health for the well-being of others or let yourself be exploited. I doubt you would have to pay alimony at all given your short marriage, and she would be taking at least some of the debt with her. After the divorce, you need a game plan for getting your mental health and finances in order. Together you are probably doing more damage and you are enabling her; you are both better off alone.[/quote]
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