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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sorry. I've gone through a similar situation, and I'm probably two months ahead of you in my reaction. In my case, DH cheated with men. He claims he's not gay or bi, and because it was so completely not the DH I knew, I had all the same cognitive dissonance that you describe. I thought somehow this person would have an explanation that would make it all make sense, because he loves me, right? But wait, this person just gave me an STD, so he obviously doesn't love me, right? Back and forth, back and forth in my brain. Eventually you will realize he has already made the choice to end your marriage, by his actions. There's no choice for you to make, unfortunately. All you can do is accept that what you had is over. And it's brutal and you will grieve, but you will get through it. [/quote] I think you posted about this before. I'm really sorry for you and for OP. Hugs to you both - you both deserve better. [/quote]
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