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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tenants?  Really?  You have a ring on your finger and I'm assuming thousands to spend each month, and you feel you are a "Tenant" to your husband?  Yes, perhaps it's technically wrong for both of your names not to be on the deed.  However, you are reaching.  Ask yourself this question: If it bothers you this much why not leave him?

Ask yourself this question also: If you're married and you end up getting divorced, what difference does it make?  All assets are separated regardless if the house doesn't have your name on it.  Unless you signed a prenup (I assume you did not).

Now, all that said it's clear your marriage isn't too great.  Because being realistic if two were really together he would want to share everything with you.  I would look at your relationship first before looking at assets.

PS: Spending time and money decorating your house is not work.  Sorry, but that's the truth.  I laugh when people act like living in a home is "work".  Is shopping work?  Is spending money work?  Let's be serious here.  [/quote]

The house was paid for in full with cash. When marrying someone with money prenup of course.  We have a good marriage for the most part. He’s extremely generous and easy to live with.   Also, I don’t have one friend who didn’t sign a prenup and not one has their name on the home or homes they reside in.   I even have a friend who works her butt off who’s DH just left her for a young chick and I found out her name isn’t on the home they built.   And she put her earned money into that home!    :shock:  [/quote]

Sorry but I (a woman) just can't relate to people like you and your peers. You want partnership in business/ financial matters, but act like children (i.e. dependents) in other respects. You call your husband "generous" which shows you think of him as sharing what HE has (not what you both own). That is accurate, I guess, given the type of arrangement you have signed up for. [/quote]

+1  I also don't have friends like you and your friends.  You all must be suffering from affluence. [/quote]

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DW and I dropped some really good friends after they married because of what is described above.  She go in a car accident and their premium went up roughly $200 a year, he made her pay the difference.   They split everything 50/50 out of separate bank accounts.   Grocery store, half goes on his card and half on hers.   Fast casual, they ordered and paid separately.

The number of stupid venmo transactions for reimbursing each other was laughable.  Her sending $10 for half a bottle of wine that was $20, which he picked up on his way home.  $20, for her portion of sushi from dinner, paid the minute they walked out.

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Whoa!!! That’s unbelievable, laughable and gross..   In all my years I’ve never and would never be in such an absurd relationship like that.  If I scratch a rim on one of my cars my DH shrugs and has it fixed asap without a word.  Same with shopping and shopping . :D [/quote]

You sound immature OP to be reacting like that to other people's marriages. At least I'm sure the bean-counting spouses probably have both their names on their house, and contribute together to the property unlike YOU. [/quote]

Oh I know! It would really piss me off  not having my name on a double wide..    :roll: [/quote]

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