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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tenants?  Really?  You have a ring on your finger and I'm assuming thousands to spend each month, and you feel you are a "Tenant" to your husband?  Yes, perhaps it's technically wrong for both of your names not to be on the deed.  However, you are reaching.  Ask yourself this question: If it bothers you this much why not leave him?

Ask yourself this question also: If you're married and you end up getting divorced, what difference does it make?  All assets are separated regardless if the house doesn't have your name on it.  Unless you signed a prenup (I assume you did not).

Now, all that said it's clear your marriage isn't too great.  Because being realistic if two were really together he would want to share everything with you.  I would look at your relationship first before looking at assets.

PS: Spending time and money decorating your house is not work.  Sorry, but that's the truth.  I laugh when people act like living in a home is "work".  Is shopping work?  Is spending money work?  Let's be serious here.  [/quote]

The house was paid for in full with cash. When marrying someone with money prenup of course.  We have a good marriage for the most part. He’s extremely generous and easy to live with.   Also, I don’t have one friend who didn’t sign a prenup and not one has their name on the home or homes they reside in.   I even have a friend who works her butt off who’s DH just left her for a young chick and I found out her name isn’t on the home they built.   And she put her earned money into that home!    :shock:  [/quote]

Sorry but I (a woman) just can't relate to people like you and your peers. You want partnership in business/ financial matters, but act like children (i.e. dependents) in other respects. You call your husband "generous" which shows you think of him as sharing what HE has (not what you both own). That is accurate, I guess, given the type of arrangement you have signed up for. [/quote]

+1  I also don't have friends like you and your friends.  You all must be suffering from affluence. [/quote]

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