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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you should have a will already. Not because of a virus. Second, no kids don?t automatically go to foster care. That is a last resort. If there are relatives who are able to care for a child, kid will go there first.  Seriously people, who doesn?t make a will when you have a child?[/quote]

We don't have anyone. MIL is bipolar and refuses to medicate, FIL is married with an alcoholic woman who still drinks and drives and does drugs despite DUIs, SIL brings random guys to live with her and her kids after dating them for 1-2 weeks, ex-h also in and out and on opioids. FIL has dogs who bit my DC2's face and refuses to even lock them when we visit. My parents are old and abroad, my brother's son is autistic and my SIL is overwhelmed with his care. 
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So pick a friend.[/quote]

This was the plan, however my H refuses all my proposed choices. The family I'm closest with are super strong antivaxx and circumspect of modern medicine, so he nixed that one. From his side, the families that are interested in taking care of our kids are Trump supporters and gun owners, so he's not comfortable with them either.  My other three closest friends are single and childless. [/quote]

Well I guess you and hubby better not die at the same time.[/quote]

No kidding; we went to a wedding recently and took separate airplanes. Unfortunately, I asked the single and childless ones and they can't do it. I need my own version of a kibbutz or my H needs to get over his Trump phobia and we needs to get the kids some gun safety lessons. [/quote]

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