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[quote=Anonymous]FEELING like murdering somebody is just a feeling. Her husband is going out of his way to be passive aggressive, mean, and belittling. I can't even compare the two.

He is pushing her buttons on purpose. He is demeaning. He is intentionally taking his stress out on her.

And she just feels like smashing his head in with a brick. But she hasn't. She doesn't even say if she has retaliated in any sort of way. I assume not.

I see OP as completely fine, and OP's husband as the problem.

OP, obviously, don't act on it. And figure out how to communicate with your husband so he knows how you are feeling. But the problem isn't you. The problem is the person who is intentionally hurting you with his words and actions.

A divorce may be appropriate. Therapy for you or both of you may be appropriate. Accountability for his actions is totally appropriate. But there is nothing wrong with feeling like hurting somebody (BUT NOT DOING IT).

OP's feelings are just feelings. OP's husband, on the other hand, needs some help.[/quote]

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