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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]you're doing the wrong thing. adhd and substance abuse are medical conditions and he needs treatment.[/quote] Op is experiencing abuse - “verbal abuse (calling me names, f*ck you, go die, giving me the finger, etc), emotional abuse (gaslighting, blocking me on his phone), and lying, especially about alcohol“. The fact that it may be triggered caused or worsened by substance abuse or mental illness is not a reason to stay. OP’s primary obligation is to the safety of her child and herself. OP cannot make her husband get treatment. But she can create a safe and healthy home environment for herself and her child. [/quote]
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