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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son's father is mad at me so he doesn't pay or see his child.  Very logical, I know.

I am mad at him too, but I still have to do homework, drs appt, school apts, buy food, clothes, birthday presents.

Screw anyone who is not mature enough to see that hating your ex should never interfere with how you take care of your child. [/quote]

The real question is why is he mad?  Do you give him open access or are there tons of restrictions.[/quote]

Do you have reading comprehension issues?  I said he doesn't see his child which implies he is able to see his child whenever he wants but chooses not to.  Please stop with the "evil mom won't let the poor man see his kids"  90% of the time that is NOT the case.  And I don't give a damn why he is mad at me.  That stopped being important to me a lot time ago and that is why we are divorced.  It should not have any impact on how he interacts with his child.[/quote]

This thread makes me realize how little we expect from men, how easily we forgive them, and how much is on women. My husband left, he cheated, he hit me, and he left. I'm STILL mad at the $hit he put me through, but guess what? I ALLOW contact, if my kid wants to call or text him, I give full freedom and even leave the room to give privacy, I make all the financial contributions because it's MY kid's future that will be affected. I don't do things to piss off dad or make him pay for what he did to me, which now includes blocking my kid from contacting me, teaching him to hate me, etc., I just do what's right for my kid, because that's what a parent should do. [/quote]

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