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[quote=Anonymous]I agree that most adults have a very poor understanding of female fertility and how it actually begins to decline in the late 20s.  By mid 30s, the decline is significant enough that at 35 women get the designation of AMA.

And, yes, everyone on this board just LOVES to drag out that Atlantic piece from a few years ago that claims that fertility barely declines until a woman is in her late 30s, and that any fertility issues that crop up in the mid-30s must have been there all along.  Uh huh.  Right.

However, in reality, I am surrounded by women who are going through exactly what you have been through.  It works out for some of them, and it doesn't for others.  I agree with one of the PPs in that this board is filled with people it worked out for.  IRL, I know remarkably few women who have had multiple kids after they were 33 or so without some kind of intervention.  Yes, historically, women have always had kids into their early 40s, but those women absolutely were NOT having their FIRST pregnancies anywhere near that age.  It's more like they had been having kids for 15-20 years leading up to their early 40s pregnancy, so their bodies knew the drill.  They also weren't working stressful big law (or something similar) hours for many years leading up to trying to get pregnant.

OP, I think many of the PPs have been nasty.  That's just the way this board is.  I am so sorry your husband did this to you.  I hope you still find a way to become a mom if that is what you want.  All the best. Hugs.[/quote]

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