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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My college gf and I had a baby that we put up for adoption 24 years ago. y wife of 15 years has no idea and never will.[/quote]

Zero judgment on the adoption but there’s no guarantee your wife won’t find out in the era of dna testing. The baby might seek you out. [/quote]

Realistically, if this happens at all, the child will either e-mail or call PP rather than going to knock on PP's door and PP can decide what he wants to do at that point.[/quote]
Who knows if this is true? I have a friend who searched for her bio faher when she was early 40's. She discovered that he was giving a talk and she went to the talk. After the talk, she approached him. She did not say she was his daughter (chickened out) but she did meet him and made an appt for a later time, and then told him. It turned out to be a happy story, but it easily could have gone the other way. Point being, just like OP is crazy to confidently think he's out of the woods since the child is now 24, you can't assume how the person would choose to make contact.[/quote]

It would be pretty stupid to show up on someone's doorstep especially if you live in a different town because you have no idea if they will be there and you may have wasted a bunch of time.  It's also not courteous to just show up to someone's house without calling ahead.  [/quote]

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