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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We can afford it and we used to have a nanny but I would always send her home as soon as I got home from work. My mom ‘did it all’ without complaining [b]so I feel lazy having child care help if I’m not away at work myself[/b]. [/quote] How does your husband feel? I'm genuinely curious how he handled the nanny if he was the one who got home early. My husband and I both work. While I took the kids out for lunch and a playdate yesterday he did four loads of laundry, remade the beds with clean sheets and duvet covers, washed all the couch cushions on the first floor, vacuumed the whole house, and took the dogs for a walk. When he gets home early, he also usually lets the nanny go unless there's something he needs help with (which would be the same as me, i.e. she helps the kids get bathed while we finish dinner). If your husband doesn't feel lazy having child care help if he's not away at work, then you need to stop feeling that way.[/quote]
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