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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My college gf and I had a baby that we put up for adoption 24 years ago. y wife of 15 years has no idea and never will.[/quote]

Good luck with that. One day, that child may come knocking on the door with the results of a DNA test and records that are much easier to track in 2005 than they were in 1985. A lot is electronic now.[/quote]

Extremely unlikely. It would have happened already if it was so easy.[/quote]

The child is only 24. Plenty of time for him or her to want to track pp down in the future. Think: when she had his or her own kids. Or when his or her parents pass away. Or mid life crisis time. Or health crisis time. [/quote]

+1 from a 30yo adoptée who didn’t care to find my biological family until I got pregnant and had to answer family history questions a few times in the span of a few weeks. When it was just me, “wait and see” was a fine approach to my health. Being pregnant, I wanted to know as much as I could. [/quote]

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