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[quote=Anonymous]OP - nothing stopping you from marrying but I would not cohabitate the kids. Since you both are high earners your frugality arguments don’t hold a lot of water. I married my BF post divorce but he kept his house. My now DH lives with me and my kids when he doesn’t have custody and goes back to his house when he does. If I don’t have custody, I stay with him and his kids (which is rare because I have 80% custody). Sometimes neither of us have custody. There is no way I want to inject myself in the parenting of his kids nor do I want him to be involved in my parenting. In addition, you need to think logistics and prenup. He moves into your house with the kids and starts paying household expenses that house is suddenly going to be half his. Don’t do that to your kids. As an aside, what is the custody split for each of you? Do you have the same days with the kids.[/quote]
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